Suicide is not an easy topic to talk about. But, that doesn't mean we shouldn't talk about it. In fact, the very fact that suicide is such a difficult topic to talk about openly means it's one we should be talking about.
Probably everyone has been touched by suicide, whether you've know someone who's taken their own life, read about recent celebrity deaths like Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain, or perhaps even have had suicidal thoughts or attempted yourself. Or all three.
Author Elizabeth Isaacs provides some staggering statistics in her blog post:
September 10th is World Suicide Prevention Day. I am joining with many other authors and book lovers to unite, spread awareness, and reach out as a source of support in the conversation about suicide. But, truth be told, I am almost didn't write this post--and for the very same reasons that people don't want to talk about it.
I have reached a point in my life where I have had to say goodbye to many loved ones, friends, neighbors, colleagues, and so on. But, the number of people that I have lost to disease and age and even tragedies like drunk driving accidents and brain aneurisms in total barely sum to the number of people I've lost due to suicide. And, I lost someone else only a little over a week ago to suicide on such a tragic scale that I can't even put it into words. This week, someone I know had to be put on suicide watch. That's two people in two weeks. Even saying that out loud hurts.
I've contemplated suicide myself once or twice, too. Probably never too seriously, but I've been there, in the dark, unable to find a way out.
If you have thought about suicide you are not broken. You are not weird or selfish. You are not being dramatic. And you are not alone. Suicide doesn't just show up on your doorstep one morning with some grand offer that you can't wait to take advantage of. It's a vine. It buds and begins to grow inside of you, taking its time as it wraps around and suffocates you, blocking out the light until you barely have the strength to draw breath. It's distressing, intolerable, and gradual.
And it hurts. I know. I've been there.
But even in our darkest, most despairing moments, there are reasons to stay alive. To hope. To persevere. To cut the vine. To keep going.
If you are struggling with or considering suicide, know that there are resources and help lines. There are people who can help. There are ways you can overcome.
The first annual Book Lover's Unite for World Suicide Prevention Day Tour will kick off on Sunday, September 1st and will culminate in a twelve-hour Facebook Live Event on World Suicide Prevention Day, September 10th.
For more information, and to add your name to the giveaway, click here.
Join us on Facebook September 10th, 8am-pmCT.
A Havenwood Falls Novella
Release Date May 24, 2019
About the Book
TWO WOMEN, ONE LOVE, AND A CURSE LURKING IN DEEP, DARK WATERS
For as long as she can remember, Maris Heilen has been haunted by dreams of a beautiful woman beckoning to her from beneath the water. These dreams have been Maris’ only constant; she’s lived her life like a leaf caught in the rushing tide: no rules, no commitments, and no long-term lovers, either—just a string of broken hearts that have tried to anchor her unwilling heart to the earth. When, following the mysterious death of her estranged father, her dreams take on a new sense of urgency and her boyfriend proposes, Maris knows its time to uproot and keep moving, though the only direction she can think to go is west, toward the water—toward her.
When instead Maris finds herself drawn to a surreal little town high in the Colorado Mountains, she can’t shake the feeling her dream might be much closer to reality than she could have imagined. But, when she discovers her past is linked to a legend even more haunted than her dreams—and that the woman she’s been dreaming about is not only real but in danger of being lost to an unfathomable darkness—Maris becomes determined to outshine the evil that has crept into a small corner of a forgotten forest of Havenwood Falls.
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Seven Jane delivers a hauntingly beautiful story of love, betrayal, and magic in Of Salt & Stars." - 2 Girls and A Book
About Havenwood Falls
Recently I had the opportunity to sit down with Kristin of Oh!FortheloveofBooks and answer some of her burning questions about The Isle of Gold--from Merrin's sexuality to my favorite member of the Riptide's crew. Check out a sneak peek of Q&A below, and don't miss out on her exclusive giveaway to win an ARC of the book for yourself!
Is Seven Jane your author name? And if so where did you come up with it?
It is! Seven Jane was actually the name I’d picked out for my daughter, if I’d had one. I never had a daughter, so I decided to keep the name for myself.
A reader (Uhm myself) happened to notice it seemed Merrin might be BiSexual, do you consider this true?
I think Merrin would say that love transcends boundaries of gender, race, time, or realm, and I would agree with her! We still have a lot to learn about her relationship with Claudette, but I would certainly consider the two women to be deeply in love, regardless of whether that is friendship, sisterhood, or romance. I think it’s all three.
Where did you get the inspiration for The Isle Of Gold?
It was inspired by a dream, and by my deep and relentless love of the ocean and pirate folklore. Actually, the catalyst for the story was a dream in which I was trapped on a small island (not much larger than a boulder) in the middle of the ocean, and the only way for me to escape the rock was to tether myself to someone else in the dream—someone much like Winters—as we had to depend on each other to survive. I woke up feeling both unable to live without this person, and doomed to be trapped with him, which opened up my imagination to the story that eventually became Winters and Evangeline’s, Davy and the sea goddess’, and even, as we are just beginning to see, Merrin and Tom Birch’s.
If you were a character in your book, who would you be?
Probably Erik Winters. I, too, am prone to fits of terrible grouchiness, rarely brush my already-unruly hair, and am fiercely loyal to those I love.
How do you think your characters would react if they met you and knew you wrote their story?
I think their reactions would be as varied as their personalities, but I definitely think I’d stick by Tom Birch in the event they all confronted me, and count on his diplomacy, just in case.
Is book two in the works?
I can officially say that yes, it is! I am so excited! I’ll be sharing more very soon on my website, so be sure to subscribe for updates at http://www.sevenjane.com/!
What will you be doing on October 9th 2018?
Hiding from social media, and drinking rum—really.
What advice would you give to others out there writing books and hoping to be published?
No matter what you do, keep writing. Surround yourself with other writers, and readers your trust. Lift each other up, and succeed as a community of artists.
Check out more on Kristin's blog here.